Long Distance Love Affair

Long distance relationship has been there for ages. Some work
just fine and some did not. In our modern times, with all the
new ways of communicating, can really love last and blossom
into more meaningful and lasting one.

Are there more chances now? How do you build a stronger
foundation without being physically together. What about the
longing for embrace and having someone closer, can it really
work without the human touch.

With the heart connection, love over the net, phone calls,
email and chat and the visit from time to time. Your heart
filled with gladness when he calls, but then you feel sad once
he hang up and wonder what is next.

Spent every minute of every moment on every visit, making up
for all the lost times and then it is a sad and teary good bye
when it is parting time, reality bites.

Roses and chocolates that filled with love and kisses you
received on some occasions...when roses dies and chocolates
melted, then you long for him to be closer and misses him more
and wonder how long the waiting will be?

You make plans, promises to make it work, but then the longing
is getting stronger. You say you trust each other, but then you sometimes wonder, who he might be with at this very moment. You are with your male friend and you wish you are with him, sharing the things, the laughter and time with him and sad part is, it is not possible at this time.....

Oh well, if you have choosen him and you love him...you are willing to take the risk, than never to try at all!

Not really matter if you are not together right now, because

there will be time when there will be no goodbyes...It is really not how far or how close you are from each other, but it is the love that you feel for each other that matters, the trust, honesty, faithfulness and the never ending hope of making your Long Distance Love Affair last!!!

cheers,



Rhed

Second Chance

It is a wonderful feelings loving someone and feeling worst when
things dont work out right. You die inside and you wish you can
turn back time, only to realize that it is too late for a
second chance.

You ask forgiveness, while he pretend not to hear. You are
hoping for a second chance and that things will still be the
same, but things have change and the feeling is wounded.

You wish you can ease the pain he feels but he chose to just
let you go and not look back, rather than have you and take that
second chance of loving you back again.

You both let the time passes by, hoping you will soon forget, only to
realize in the end that you can never loved anyone else as much
as you have love him.

The saddest thing in life is loving someone who used to love
you.

Why do we choose to let go? No matter how much we cared and love
that person, we rather deal with the pain of being alone rather
than being happy. Why it is so hard to forgive and we choose
not to forget?

True love never gives up, it never judge, but love understand.
Love listen to the heart and mind gives no reason and never ask
why, for only the heart can express what the mind cant!!!

While the love never really gone, it just stood there in the corner of your heart, longing, waiting for second chance....second chance that he will learn to forgive and take the chance of being with you again.....

The most wonderful feeling in life, is being with someone that you can not lived without. The happiest is spending the rest of your life together.

Love while you live, forgive while you can and be with that person you love, rathen than be sorry in the end!!!


cheers,


Rhed

Best of Both Worlds

We try to find and build a good relationship. We do our best to
make it work right. However, there are times that even we feel
the fulfillment of having someone, we still try to find someone
else and to have the best of both worlds.

We want the best of both worlds in whatever fields that is, But
we should realize we can have a try a taste of it, but really
cant have both as much as we would like, having both means
having only half of each world.

While having a relationship with someone else can fill up what
is empty but that does not mean doing it can complete you.
Having both world does not complete a person, can be satisfied
for awhile but sooner or later you have to choose one, to be
really happy.

Choosing to have both worlds, can ruin any good relationship and
what you work hard for at the start.

Have what makes you really happy and have someone fills
your heart and soul and not just someone satisfy your
body. While it can boost your ego, you will soon realize that all is
left is your ego and your heart feels empty and everything is
wrong.

So why not just choose just having one, even if you can have
lots,because the bottom line could be not having anyone, REAL!

The best of both worlds is so inviting but would you choose
having both or be happy with what you have right now!!!

cheers,

Rhed