Tuesday, December 21, 2010

Walk To Remember

Tuesday, December 7, 2010

Christmas, Love is in the Air!

Christmas just around the corner and we feel more love is in the air.

Some feels the mix emotions of being happy and the emptiness inside, missing and longing for someone.

We have some wishes on our minds, we have so many things in mind.

The air feels so cold, and you will see some who are alone and some who choose to be alone.

But it is always nice to celebrate the holiday with someone, not necessarily with family, if they are far from you butChristmas is for sharing, it should put a smile on your face and peace on your heart.

Although not everybody is really enjoying it, for some reason that is beyond their control, but in their hearts, they try to feel the happiness and some touch other lives without even knowing it.

It is sure better to give than to received for it is in giving that we can feel some peace and real happiness inside.

It does not have to be material things that you can make someone happy, it could also be just being there for them, remembering them, when they think they have been forgotten.

Visiting someone that you havent seen for long time, can touch the heart.

Forgiving someone that has hurt you and letting go of the pain, can make greater happiness inside you.

Although it should not be just during holidays, that we should feel like giving, forgiving and caring. We can do this all year round.

It is not how much money we have, but it is what we give without taking that will give us real happiness. Feel the love and magic of Christmas.

Life may not be always easy, but with the love that is in the air, it makes everything easier, especially if it is shared with someone.

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Monday, December 6, 2010

Recession on Christmas Time

Christmas is just around the corner but how do you
celebrate christmas during recession, when feeling so
down surrounds you.

Christmas is just once a year but recession is here for
long time now. Lets look on the brighter side of
tomorrow.

Is it enough to have foods for Christmas time and then
be worried the whole year through? It is when we are
about to give up, that things start to lighten up.

Looking at our child, while he is asking what is there
for Christmas and wishing for things and hoping Santa
Claus is real. What can you give, if you are empty
pocket and out of job?

Adult would understand what a child would find it hard
to comprehend, "how come others can enjoy what i can
not during Christmas time?" Give your child a tight hug and he will appreciate it for life. There are places you can go to that will not cost much but your child would appreciate.

The saddest feeling a Mother can have, is not being
able to give what her child wants during this holiday
and worst is not being able to provide for the coming
days too. But better opportunity might be on your way,
when you least expect it.

What about feeling empty stomach for others, staying on
the street while feeling so cold. Feeling like nobody
cares anymore. In this busy world,especially during
holidays, there are still people who really cares and
it is not just by words but they are going around to
share what they have, spreading love and giving hope to
others.


Christmas light will surely brighten the night, but it
is also a message that there is hope for tomorrow and
every symbol of Christmas has a better message to
offer.


Keep dreaming, even if you are loosing hope. Show your
child the strength that they need, when they are
feeling low. Keep your faith, your child would feel it.


Christmas during recession is not really so much fun,
more worries sometimes, but there is life after
Christmas and there will always be days like that but
we all know, things get better in time and we just have
keep our faith, action and prayers together!


Share your blessing and put a smile on a child face and lightens the heart!

Feel Merry and Enjoy Christmas and have wonderful
Holidays even during Recession!


Happy Holiday Everyone!


rhed

Monday, November 29, 2010

Finding the Right Love

Should the look stop you from being happy, finding love and being with someone? Some would hide and will not come out from their comfort zone, because of their worries of being rejected. Because of insecurity, they missed all the fun!

She sees him every morning, he is so adorable and very friendly. He smiled at her and she smiled back and then she look away. It is always like that, she never initiated any conversation, after every smile and she is so worried he will laugh because she is BBW. She is pretty but her size is her problem on finding happiness, feeling the spark, she ignores her feelings for him and just feel sorry for herself.

She let time passes by, winter, summer and fall, just glancing at him and hoping things will change but she never anything to change it. She is just so insecure, she keep telling to herself, they do not match, he is so hot and she is so big, putting it bluntly.

Next day, to her surprise...The guy next door is with this Big Beautiful Woman, about her size and she learned that the guy next door like Big Beautiful Woman and with a sigh, it could have been her. But too late now, she learned her lesson, she knows better next time, size should not be a problem having someone, being inlove, dating someone and finding the connection.

You just have to do, what you got to do, rather than be sorry later.

Finding the Right Love, is somehow taking the risk as well and not getting afraid to try what it can offer you. Just go for it!

Monday, November 1, 2010

Good Side Effect of Marijuana

What comes to mind when you hear the word Marijuana, is it the negative effect of it and the thought of getting high?

Marijuana is commonly known as chronic, pot or hash and is consumed either by eating, smoking or by soaking it in tea. First time smokers of marijuana should always use a small dose to see how it would effect their body or mind.

On Nov. 2, voters will decide whether to approve Proposition 19, which would legalize the cultivation and personal use of small amounts of marijuana for people 21 and older. Local governments would be allowed to regulate the drug and impose taxes and fees upon its sale.

Lets look at the bright side, Is Marijuana a Medicine? Doctors say the studies that have been done suggest marijuana can benefit patients in the areas of managing neuropathic pain, which is caused by certain types of nerve injury, and in bolstering appetite and treating nausea, for instance in cancer patients undergoing chemotherapy.

"The evidence is mounting" for those uses, says Igor Grant, director of the Center for Medicinal Cannabis Research at the University of California, San Diego.

The U.S. Department of Justice has said it will not generally prosecute ill people under doctors' care whose use of the drug complies with state rules. New Jersey will become the 14th state to allow therapeutic use of marijuana, and the number is likely to grow. Illinois and New York, among others, are considering new laws.

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Sunday, August 29, 2010

Long Distance Love Affair


Long distance relationship has been there for ages. Some work
just fine and some did not. In our modern times, with all the
new ways of communicating, can really love last and blossom
into more meaningful and lasting one.

Are there more chances now? How do you build a stronger
foundation without being physically together. What about the
longing for embrace and having someone closer, can it really
work without the human touch.

With the heart connection, love over the net, phone calls,
email and chat and the visit from time to time. Your heart
filled with gladness when he calls, but then you feel sad once
he hang up and wonder what is next.

Spent every minute of every moment on every visit, making up
for all the lost times and then it is a sad and teary good bye
when it is parting time, reality bites.

Roses and chocolates that filled with love and kisses you
received on some occasions...when roses dies and chocolates
melted, then you long for him to be closer and misses him more
and wonder how long the waiting will be?

You make plans, promises to make it work, but then the longing
is getting stronger. You say you trust each other, but then you sometimes wonder, who he might be with at this very moment. You are with your male friend and you wish you are with him, sharing the things, the laughter and time with him and sad part is, it is not possible at this time.....

Oh well, if you have choosen him and you love him...you are willing to take the risk, than never to try at all!

Not really matter if you are not together right now, because

there will be time when there will be no goodbyes...It is really not how far or how close you are from each other, but it is the love that you feel for each other that matters, the trust, honesty, faithfulness and the never ending hope of making your Long Distance Love Affair last!!!

cheers,



Rhed

Saturday, August 28, 2010

Second Chance

It is a wonderful feelings loving someone and feeling worst when
things dont work out right. You die inside and you wish you can
turn back time, only to realize that it is too late for a
second chance.

You ask forgiveness, while he pretend not to hear. You are
hoping for a second chance and that things will still be the
same, but things have change and the feeling is wounded.

You wish you can ease the pain he feels but he chose to just
let you go and not look back, rather than have you and take that
second chance of loving you back again.

You both let the time passes by, hoping you will soon forget, only to
realize in the end that you can never loved anyone else as much
as you have love him.

The saddest thing in life is loving someone who used to love
you.

Why do we choose to let go? No matter how much we cared and love
that person, we rather deal with the pain of being alone rather
than being happy. Why it is so hard to forgive and we choose
not to forget?

True love never gives up, it never judge, but love understand.
Love listen to the heart and mind gives no reason and never ask
why, for only the heart can express what the mind cant!!!

While the love never really gone, it just stood there in the corner of your heart, longing, waiting for second chance....second chance that he will learn to forgive and take the chance of being with you again.....

The most wonderful feeling in life, is being with someone that you can not lived without. The happiest is spending the rest of your life together.

Love while you live, forgive while you can and be with that person you love, rathen than be sorry in the end!!!


cheers,


Rhed

Best of Both Worlds

We try to find and build a good relationship. We do our best to
make it work right. However, there are times that even we feel
the fulfillment of having someone, we still try to find someone
else and to have the best of both worlds.

We want the best of both worlds in whatever fields that is, But
we should realize we can have a try a taste of it, but really
cant have both as much as we would like, having both means
having only half of each world.

While having a relationship with someone else can fill up what
is empty but that does not mean doing it can complete you.
Having both world does not complete a person, can be satisfied
for awhile but sooner or later you have to choose one, to be
really happy.

Choosing to have both worlds, can ruin any good relationship and
what you work hard for at the start.

Have what makes you really happy and have someone fills
your heart and soul and not just someone satisfy your
body. While it can boost your ego, you will soon realize that all is
left is your ego and your heart feels empty and everything is
wrong.

So why not just choose just having one, even if you can have
lots,because the bottom line could be not having anyone, REAL!

The best of both worlds is so inviting but would you choose
having both or be happy with what you have right now!!!

cheers,

Rhed